Πέμπτη 27 Φεβρουαρίου 2014

LET’S TALK ABOUT SUCCESS

WHAT IS SUCCESS!

Success in life is something that everyone thrives for but not many people succeed in attaining it.

Why is this so?

Is it because we all differ in our abilities and talents? If one thinks this way, then it is logical to follow on that the more talented one is, the more likely he will be successful in life, and thus those with ‘no abilities’ or lesser talents would have little or no chance at succeeding in life. Well, this is all a myth.

Simply saying that “I have no talents” or “my IQ is average and I have nothing special to offer to anyone” is just an excuse to laze around and start self‐pitying oneself when others around them start becoming successful in life. Yes, it is true that each and every human being is born with a different set of skills and aptitude and that it may be harder for someone with no education background to be rich and successful as compared to a person who is equipped with higher levels of education.

However, it is important to note is that we too have our own unique set of desires and determination that is not dependant on our abilities but rather our inner strengths and attitudes. It is our determination and willpower that ultimately brings us success in life and this is something that a lot of people tend to forget.

It is through our attitudes and how we live our lives that make up a successful person.

Talents and abilities are definite, but the strength of our determination and desires is limitless. Though, many people do not know how to utilize their inner strength and work towards being successful.

This report will be giving you secret tips on how to maximize your inner determination to become successful. These four easy‐to‐follow steps will take you closer than you ever were to achieving your aspirations.

Attaining your goals will no longer be just a dream, but rather a reality that you have strived for by working through these four simple methods.

But before we go into detail on what these four steps are, let us see what success means to you first.

Many a times, people go about wasting half their lifetime chasing a dream only to realize that it was not something they want.

What I mean by ‘want’ is that these so‐called dreams once attained, did not make them feel satisfied or happy. Unlike what many people assume, success is not measured by money. Success is not a simple calculation of how many figures one has on their bank account or how many employers are working under you. To be more precise, success is measured by how much one feels satisfied and fulfilled by what one has accomplished. Looking and behaving like a successful person does not mean that you feel like one.

For example, if you are a millionaire, numerous people will view you as someone that is rich and successful. However, if you are alone with no friends, family, or loved ones to share that pile of gold with, are you satisfied, happy? Can you call yourself successful when you are sorely lacking something?

Therefore, it is important to keep in mind when working through the four steps whether or not that goal is truly something that you would want to pursue.

True aspirations normally remain unchanged over time. This means that if you find yourself constantly changing your goals and being fickle‐minded about them, they most probably aren’t what you genuinely want.

Now let’s move on to the 4 steps to success!

TO BE CONTINUED………

LET’S TALK ABOUT SUCCESS

WHAT IS SUCCESS!

Success in life is something that everyone thrives for but not many people succeed in attaining it.

Why is this so?

Is it because we all differ in our abilities and talents? If one thinks this way, then it is logical to follow on that the more talented one is, the more likely he will be successful in life, and thus those with ‘no abilities’ or lesser talents would have little or no chance at succeeding in life. Well, this is all a myth.

Simply saying that “I have no talents” or “my IQ is average and I have nothing special to offer to anyone” is just an excuse to laze around and start self‐pitying oneself when others around them start becoming successful in life. Yes, it is true that each and every human being is born with a different set of skills and aptitude and that it may be harder for someone with no education background to be rich and successful as compared to a person who is equipped with higher levels of education.

However, it is important to note is that we too have our own unique set of desires and determination that is not dependant on our abilities but rather our inner strengths and attitudes. It is our determination and willpower that ultimately brings us success in life and this is something that a lot of people tend to forget.

It is through our attitudes and how we live our lives that make up a successful person.

Talents and abilities are definite, but the strength of our determination and desires is limitless. Though, many people do not know how to utilize their inner strength and work towards being successful.

This report will be giving you secret tips on how to maximize your inner determination to become successful. These four easy‐to‐follow steps will take you closer than you ever were to achieving your aspirations.

Attaining your goals will no longer be just a dream, but rather a reality that you have strived for by working through these four simple methods.

But before we go into detail on what these four steps are, let us see what success means to you first.

Many a times, people go about wasting half their lifetime chasing a dream only to realize that it was not something they want.

What I mean by ‘want’ is that these so‐called dreams once attained, did not make them feel satisfied or happy. Unlike what many people assume, success is not measured by money. Success is not a simple calculation of how many figures one has on their bank account or how many employers are working under you. To be more precise, success is measured by how much one feels satisfied and fulfilled by what one has accomplished. Looking and behaving like a successful person does not mean that you feel like one.

For example, if you are a millionaire, numerous people will view you as someone that is rich and successful. However, if you are alone with no friends, family, or loved ones to share that pile of gold with, are you satisfied, happy? Can you call yourself successful when you are sorely lacking something?

Therefore, it is important to keep in mind when working through the four steps whether or not that goal is truly something that you would want to pursue.

True aspirations normally remain unchanged over time. This means that if you find yourself constantly changing your goals and being fickle‐minded about them, they most probably aren’t what you genuinely want.

Now let’s move on to the 4 steps to success!

TO BE CONTINUED………

Τετάρτη 19 Φεβρουαρίου 2014

Σωματική και πνευματική έλξη

 

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Μια γυναίκα μπορεί να προσελκύσει άντρες αποκλειστικά με την σωματική της εμφάνιση. Όπως όμως ανέφερα, οι άντρες δεν θα δεσμευτούν για αυτούς τους λόγους. Ένας άντρας θα νοικοκυρευτεί με μία γυναίκα λόγω της προσωπικότητάς της, των συναισθημάτων που αυτή του δημιουργεί και του τρόπου που αλληλεπιδρά σε προσωπικό και κοινωνικό επίπεδο.

Αυτό που θέλω να πω είναι ότι υπάρχουν δύο είδη έλξης τα οποία πρέπει να είναι παρόντα ώστε τα πράγματα με έναν άντρα να γίνουν σοβαρά:

“Σωματική Έλξη” και “Πνευματική Έλξη”.

Έχοντας ξοδέψει χρόνια παρατηρώντας και μελετώντας για αυτά, έφτασα στο συμπέρασμα ότι απαντάνε και τις δύο ερωτήσεις:

  •  “Τι προσελκύει τους άντρες;”
  • “Τι τους ενδιαφέρει σε μία μακροχρόνια σχέση;”.

Η “Σωματική Έλξη” είναι το πιο 79830-sxesiπροφανές καθώς έχει να κάνει με την εμφάνιση. Η σωματική έλξη είναι αυτό που συμβαίνει όταν μία γυναίκα λέει “Αυτός εκεί είναι κούκλος” ή όταν ένας άντρας αρχίζει να σε φλερτάρει από το πουθενά σε ένα μπαρ. Αυτού του είδους η έλξη προέρχεται συνήθως από τη γλώσσα του σώματος, την εμφάνιση και το στυλ.

Από την άλλη, η “Πνευματική Έλξη” δεν έχει να κάνει με την ομορφιά και την εμφάνιση των πραγμάτων. Για τους άντρες συχνά είναι το αποτέλεσμα του να δουν και να αναγνωρίσουν στην προσωπικότητα μιας γυναίκας κάτι ξεχωριστό και μοναδικό.

rantevouΑυτού του είδους η έλξη προέρχεται συνήθως από ενδείξεις υψηλού status (το οποίο περιλαμβάνει τη φωνή, τη στάση του σώματος, τη συμπεριφορά και τον τρόπο που οι άλλοι στέκονται γύρω σου). Επίσης περιλαμβάνει πράγματα όπως το χιούμορ, την αυτοπεποίθηση και το πόσο πρωτότυπη και απρόβλεπτη είσαι.

Και να ένα κρίσιμο σημείο:

Ένας άντρας δεν μπορεί να νιώσει πνευματική έλξη για μια γυναίκα αν την βλέπει σαν κάποια που δεν είναι ισάξια του. Αν μάλιστα παρατηρήσει ότι η γυναίκα διαθέτει υψηλό status τότε η έλξη γίνεται ακόμα πιο έντονη. Όταν ένας άντρας βιώσει μία τέτοιου είδους έλξη για μια γυναίκα, την ξεχωρίζει στο μυαλό του από όλες τις άλλες γυναίκες, την βλέπει ως ξεχωριστή και μοναδική και της δίνει αυτόματα το σεβασμό και το θαυμασμό του. Και αυτές είναι σκέψεις που συνήθως δεν απασχολούν το μυαλό ενός άντρα λόγω σωματικής έλξης.

ΚΑΙ ΤΑ ΔΥΟ αυτά είδη έλξης είναι ΑΠΑΡΑΙΤΗΤΑ συστατικά για μία οποιαδήποτε επιτυχημένη σχέση. Άλλα πράγματα μπορεί να έρχονται και να φεύγουν, άλλα αν αυτά τα δύο είδη έλξης μένουν δυνατά τότε όλα τα άλλα που συμβαίνουν έχουν 100 φορές περισσότερες πιθανότητες να πάνε καλά.